I came across a thing today.
It was an item on tumblr and, having read it, it got me thinking.
It’s title was exactly the same as the title of this post.
Now I do not know under copyright law whether I am allowed to distribute it here. Perhaps I am not. I simply do not know. But I can distribute the sentiment, of that I am sure. I will confirm that the original information is not my own. The response, however, is mine and mine alone.
It went something like this.
What are the rewards for the keyholder:
- Reduced pressure for sex
- Security – no cheating for him
- Romance – you’re the only one
- Better sex – focus on your orgasms
- Attention – he’ll do everything to please
- Control – enjoy the power exchange
I understand all of this. Please believe me, I do understand.
But it just does not apply to me. Only number 6 has any resonance at all, and only faintly at that.
I think perhaps I may be doing things wrong. I think perhaps my devotion may be misplaced or perhaps displaced.
None of these reasons apply to me, and yet they seem to be the bedrock of chastity for everyone else.
I do not need to be locked. I have spent enough years without any knowledge of male chastity to know this.
But I do prefer to be locked. And it seems Mistress prefers it also. But I simply do not understand what she gets out of it. I am not her partner, I am not in any way associated other than being submissive and, hopefully, just a normal friend. So what on earth does Mistress get out of it?
I do not know. I truly do not know.